But let me tell you, he is passive with people he sees as friends but with me which he told me he loved me, he was mean. The problem with passivity is that women want to see a man in action. He is not a people pleaser, but he is a gentleman and he is tactful and kind— his motivations are different from the people pleasers. He lets his 2 boys age 22 and 24 control him. I know a few people like this. Which one makes things happen, which one waits for things to happen? I think there are things that an alpha can learn from a passive people pleaser type of guy and visa versa.
Aggressive is beyond assertive and has a negative connotation. The problem with passive men is that they tend to bore women and women lose interest. He was saying terrible things to me and for him to be passive and let them run all over them and then be non passive to me has me baffled. Some very active men will know what they want to do with their lives and hence they may not have time to volunteer. For sure many people who are passive not just men also end up being passive aggressive. Players are good at pretending to care about women until they get what they want from the woman. I will need to google about few things you have mentioned in your artcile to make sure.
Hi Mike, Thanks for your comment. But anyway thanks for taking your time to write intresting artciles and good luck on writing other articles. Which one takes whatever comes. Deep down we want to know that our existence was meaningful. I told him when he gets some balls contact me.
The second showed activity, an existence that displayed a desire for selfless service. So many men are passive, just like this sentence. The article was about avoiding the passive man, but I went on a detour and started talking about why living as a couple without a purpose beyond yourselves is detrimental. But I guess that could be called passive aggressive. . Which one has strong opinions. Sorry you had to deal with this hun.
So in this I am very confused on your perspective on how you understand people. As I tend to find people that are very alpha are careless and people that are passive normally want to please people and care about them. I thought the article was good up to this point. Which one leads, which one follows? I want to clarify what I mean by passive men. And he lets the two boys girlfriends control him. He drops me like a hot potato because this sons girlfriend coerced him into it.
Aggressive is like being assertive but without caring for how others are affected. The problem with passive sentences is that they tend to bore the reader and the reader loses interest. As humans, we were meant to bring something to this earth while we are here, not just live to consume. I also want to share that the opposite is not aggressive, but an assertive and an active pursuer. Thank you for sharing another reason why passive people need to be honest— to learn to tell the truth in love. That is why she needs to know what it is that a man wants to do with his life.
We thought we empowered ourselves by taking on their role, but instead we ended up cutting them slack in the dating department and making them passive. But yet he can treat me like crap and be verbally sarcastic and pretty much tell me what he wanted to say. They put up with having people walk all over them sooo much that they end up coming to a breaking point and it comes out very rude and aggressive. I think you have to two mixed up. . . .
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