How do I ask my beloved for more passion? My wife and i have been married for 25 years and we have been swinging for 10 years. We are also the very jealous, and the idea of my wife being up to something behind my back can drive me crazy. There are many variable, and my question is: why get married at all if you can't keep things between yourself and your wife? And she's usually okay with that. I used to be very jealous, and such thought would have had me puke in my previous relationships. Report any suspicious ads or messages. I often wonder if guys like you have any clue how foolish you look to others. The explanation is most fellas purely cherish it.
It depends on a number of factors. No it is not worth it. I jerked off watching most of the time and filmed them. The children have to visit two houses for Thanksgiving and Christmas. If his wife is aware of his attraction, that may affect her feelings toward you. I only get to know the details second hand as my wife has point blank refused to do it in my presence with Basant.
So, for entertainment I suggested that Val and one of our friends put on a sex show for us. Now, for years I had told my wife that I didn't care who she talked to or what she did, I just wanted to know about it. A female reader, anonymous, writes 11 February 2009 : He either just enjoys watching you be a slut or he just likes the control of you doing it for him. He and his wife may be having an unstated conflict over you that they are not talking about. Now we are experimenting with a three-sum and we both find it great.
If you want to share your wife with other men, perhaps you have the fetish they call cuckolding. A male reader, anonymous, writes 9 February 2010 : My wife and I have been enjoying this lifestyle for over 11 years. We really don't care what others think about us, but I'm here to tell you, not by fantasy, but by living an amazing lifestyle. You can't go back to how it used to be. I wasn't interested in other women and no I am not bi.
Yes, he still loves you and probably loves you even more for fulfilling his desire. Neither of you are prepared to handle this. She's not going to dinner with him. While everyone thought we were just being silly, I was having the most erotic time. My wife is only the 3rd person I've had sex with. I have to admit right now I we have a 17 year old girl that is hot on us, but we will not touch her due to her age. Asking you to boink other men so he can 'watch' is not an act of love and cherishment, at all.
I hope these men you have had sex with, are not complete strangers, dear. I'm an older woman, and maybe my values are a bit old-fashioned. But when you go down this road, what are the chances. Your letter contains few details about the decision-making process that led to this arrangement. How many more times will you bring it up? She is also successful in the corporate life, and her sharp mind caught off guard right from the beginning. I am still good friends with both unfortunately due to distance and schedules we have not been able to get together again although every time we talk the subject comes up and we must make plans to do it again as there are so many other things we want to try together.
Unfaithfulness brings mistrust in a marriage. I'm an older woman, and maybe my values are a bit old-fashioned. They will take her to business trip to different places and in some cases they will come back after weeks. There was a office party organized by my bosses for employees and their families I bought my wife also. When she came to bed, I couldn't sleep and told her we had to talk. My very beautiful wife is now having very regular sex with her 51st lover, since we took our vows nearly 12 years ago.
Now after many years of a monogamous marriage I fantasize all the time and wish If I had slept with all the 30. Again I think he just likes the fantasy not the reality. It's something that couples consensually do together for their mutual enjoyment. The husband merely watches in the corner. She has a special sparkle in her look that makes me defenceless, especially when she is a bit tipsy. He would have sought that out earlier than 7 years into the marriage. That is not fair at all.
The advantage for his wife below is she can calm down and realistically let herselfgo, and potentially just about disregard her husband is there, or at minimum out it out of herhead. Society always portrays that a man should stick to one wife. Understanding The FetishVarious experts shed light on this submissive fetish in different perspectives. Apparently, she can reject or accept what her husband asks her to do, yet she obeys. She know I love her. Next day of the party my bosses call me to their cabin and does my wife is working the I said no. Nowadays in my middle 50's I'm not too potent anymore and her libido in her late 40's is intact, so why not doing it with a potent young guy.
The sooner wife sharing becomes an accepted norm, the better for everyone. Yes it will make you look cheap and thats a bad idea. Why such thought come to a husband is not known to me, but they come and does not diminish the love for wife. My internal debate the past week has been whether I love being a part of a deeply caring relationship and wonderful family enough to deal with a lack of passion. A female reader, anonymous, writes 15 September 2017 : Hold it right there! You do not seem to recognize how unusual this sounds.