Posts: 969 Joined: Mon Mar 21, 2011 9:30 pm She may not want medication, which I do understand, but it would be nice if you could help her find a support group maybe? The comfort of knowing someone will always be there to take care of you and make everything all right is not easily given up; and once given up, the knowledge that there is no one standing between you and the dangers in the night is potentially terrifying. You have to take the risk if you want to be with to that person. I think it might fall under the category of having different values and it could be a real deal breaker for me. Furthermore, in addition to her mother, you have had to hire a housekeeper and a nanny, so what exactly would your wife be doing at home during the day? I know without a doubt she still cares, because she was texting a mutual friend and said that she does still love me, and hopes it will work in the future, but that we both need time to mature she never brought that up as an issue. Cheers, and I hope you and your sons are all well. I told my son no woman just up and leaves , he was paying the bills co signed for her to get a car and worked a lot to support her. I had to stop being so nit picky about it.
I was in prison for four years. Every time I look at her pics, I am immediately in love again by seeing her smile but in person all I am thinking of is an exit strategy despite all the caring in the world. My girlfriend and I recently broke up a couple of days ago I cheated on her 2 years ago with a common friend of ours. We still do see each other because I drive and stay at her parents house on the weekends. I'm 20 and I still haven't worked at all. You said i need to change ,,, I am trying too change. It all fell apart anyway.
In same note I told her I did care and was sorry for the things I messed up on. She mentions the back together thing for the future and so do I but she just recently talking to another guy who basically has the same interests as me. But, relationships get more stressful and complicated when you really try to build a future together and start a family. Can I fight for that money for my kids specially for our 1 year old expenses. Second, you may be able to obtain restraining orders under false pretenses usually for a period of 14 days before you have to attend a hearing to prove the allegations. The way this went down was that I got very worried and stayed up all night trying to stop her, and since then it has happened multiple times. For this reason I feel like a worthless piece of sh1t when it comes to making this girl happy and hence why I have kind of backed off since she split with me even though she says she still likes me.
She finally left me, packed her stuff and left. Best of luck to you on your journey. My girlfriend had livedown with me since the end of January of last year when she found out we were having a baby. As I read your comments I am beginning to understand what my boyfriend feels. When i met her , she showed me my text messages screenshot with her by giving me the cellphone.
I was deeply confused, 3 days ago we had from my viewpoint a little fight about she didnt reply passed 1 hour or sometimes even more because she was in her job having a rough time i understand that , it was the very first time we did talk about that so i raged a bit and im being honest it was just a bit and told her i was going to go to a party with some friends so she got mad but sad at the same time. Namely, attain some employment to contribute to the financial obligations for this household. I left and she begged me to come back was it real or just for financial support. I live with my dad and it's so boring, I really hate living at home, but I can't leave home because I have no money and even if I did I wouldn't have anyone to move in with. Or did she just feel like you were? Family is serious and difficult and a team effort. My bf is 21 as well, he's in his last year of college, and he works two part time jobs as well. I mean,have you become just a caretaker for her,a shoulder to cry on? Seems like a pattern, a thing to analyse better.
She is unable to be a partner in a relationship, so stop trying to make her one. Spousal support is not a form of abuse. As says: You think someone has integrity, but when they want out, and do so in a very cowardly way, it becomes a real disappointment. You are helpful to them by being there when they need you. Another way of saying it is being fair. It is so helpful knowing that not only are there so many others in my situation but also that there is someone who clearly knows what we have lived through.
Ive never got an answer the whole family blocked me. It just means you have to put a little more time and effort into it and deal with some possible jerks. Agree to comply with her wishes. Due to the legal troubles and losing career path I fell into a deep depression, everything I worked towards. You can Google these terms, too, and read some other heartbreaking stories. I pray the economy gets better so and people's lives would return to normal - just like before.
Hi Mark, I agree with Kev. My ex has more advanced degrees than me. Okay, on one knows each other in here. They happened to want to be more involved and probablly see working as taking time away from their ability to watch thier children learn and grow. I tried to start a business but due to recession and my lack of drive it failed making things even worst and driving me into debt and further depression.