She deserves it because she's hurt me by not loving me. Today for example, he got mad at me for making a comment to his cousin's girlfriend while on a 4 way call. From what you said it's not clear to me whether you actually have low sex drive don't often feel an urge for sexual release or if you just don't like sex with him much because of the reasons you stated. Any time he accuses you from here on end, tell him to grow up, not be so in-secure and when he's ready to apologise to pick up the phone and hang up. I respect your point, and I stand by mine. Serious question: are you not interested in sex because you just have a low libido, or are you not interested in sex because it's never really been very good for you. Thank you for reading my long post, I really appreciate any help you can give me.
A cycle has no beginning and no end. Because he knows he can. You are 18, you are going to grow up very fast the next couple of years and long distant relationships are hard, very hard. A lot of really bad people can be very charming. Ban the use of curse words. Maybe try taking more initiative and control during sex? I have to say i don't really know what the answer is to this question, despite having spent three years trying to work it out! He should feel that you have more interesting things to do than pay attention to him and his moods. She undermined my confidence in how she was constantly trying to convince me I had all these flaws, was extremely annoying, everything was always my fault, blah blah blah.
Amazing, wonderful so much love from both sides, like soulmates. When their sports team loses. He admits he has trouble with controling his anger but he says theres nothing he can do about it and its just the way he is and he has tried to control it but he just cant. It is very hard for the average human being to cheat on someone he has a good relationship with. I certainly think that from everything you say, you should end this relationship.
For example I figured out that reading erotica turned me on, my boyfriend was totally fine with me reading erotica while he ate me out cause it really helped me get aroused. I suggest you enter psychotherapy as a way of breaking up this entire unsatisfactory way of living. This will have the opposite effect and may open the door for more insults. I didnt tell him to fight him nor did i provoke it, i tried to stop it, and he still blamed me. Today he got so upset because he said he's sick of me texting him one word answers or smile faces that he can't respond back to. It kind of made me feel like shit, like i was only good for 1 thing.
I feel angry when you yell and it is not productive. Love doesn't feel like this, you may be inlove with the feelings you had the first few weeks, but what is happening now are not feelings of love. The interesting thing was that when they were shouting at each other, they were always blaming each other for things that did not seem to be very important. I seriously considered it while I was with him. You are young and have your whole life ahead of you. He's been very understanding, he wants the relationship to work and the fact that we really love each other, we'll both make it works.
And he will probably continue for some time at least. When their girlfriend talks about an ex. And hes not easy to talk to about it cuz he feels like I'm attacking him when all I want to do is make him understand my point. It's gross to me that you would even suggest that. I think you guys just need to talk and be more open to stuff.
Basically, I moved from a relationship that was inexistent to a new relationship that is completely different. He caused so much unhappiness in my life due to his angry outbursts that it robbed me of much joy. Point out the hypocrisy of his behavior to him and tell him that it's not okay for him to think he can talk to other girls but you can't talk to other guys. In your case, maybe he's questioning too or just needing a little break to think about things or maybe something else is irritating him say at work or family, etc. Figure out why you need a rigid, controling, jealous boy to run your life. I have probably forgotten many other things too.
Sorry, I get that you are making a point about the therapist here, but again I get the impression that the good side of him skews things. Anonymous June 3, 2018 7:29 am. I just think you have got lucky, because his reaction to your most annoying habit shows his real, unarguable love for you. I honestly think you should seriously consider breaking up. But dictating that a mid point compromise is a must is the same as dictating that one partner must match the other partner's libido, whether up or down. Im 19, he's the only partner ive ever had and im the only one hes had too.