I don't record her messages on Voicemail. I had one of them also. No matter how crazy she is, you should never cross the line and come out as a really arrogant dude. I started to question if I am the crazy one. Use your brain, your skill, and your expertise of how to how to get rid of a crazy Japanese girlfriend. Matt is a nice guy.
Smile, get dressed in your fine kit and do some dam day game until the sun sets and some night game until the sun rises in the Land of the Rising Sun. If he likes her, he likes her. If you want to get rid of her, then why do you keep her around by being friendly? I haven't seen this extreme behavior. Most use these to track you especially if you are an avid user. There are other women who are desperate and will take anything they can get if there is a small chance that they could get together with you. Completely undesireable option but pretty much full proof gets rid of all Cluster B women and even normal women lol. She does surround herself with fawning attention.
What I should have listened to was a my gut. There are a million other stories I could tell about her in the time we were together, but suffice it to say they are all very similar to the ones I gave here. I don't record her messages on Voicemail. Besides, fighting with her is probably the best way to make her leave…. To say 'bpd whack job' is redundant. This is just too cool, bro! I stopped eating and, like, living.
If I could see them being happy, I'd be all for it. Of course I only saw what she wanted me to see. What a bpd will do is structure their life so that they experience abandonment as much as possible, despite having a horrible fear of it. This woman has built up quite a repertoire of breakup songs. If her ex somehow pops into your date all the time or constantly stalks her, you need to get to the bottom of it.
If your ex-girlfriend doesn't leave you alone after an extended period, you may consider taking extreme measures. Try some classical music, or some jazz, or even some blues. They broke up a month before we started talking. In your mind, think of yourself as the bouncer of a classy club. Therefore, by giving them any hope at all, they will hang on and try to win you over.
This is not just about his ex-girlfriend calling, it's about whether or not he recognizes and deals with problems as they arise. I refuse to change my cel. Without thinking too much, just excuse yourself and head for the restroom. So, my advice… stop being so nice. Of course since I had found out so many of her past stories were lies, i really didn't believe these either and of course those turned out to be false as well. If you can, take videos of her refusing to leave your home after showing up uninvited. Encourage her to seek professional help and counseling.
Thats what they do, suck the life out of you and then move on since they always need new forms of excitement and drama to keep them from thinking about their own depression. Start peeping into her daily schedule. If you know, she goes to a particular grocery store, go to a different one. Or do I just go for the juggular and tell her to F-off in no uncertain ice cold emotionless terms. I love The Crazy Friend. See, me calling her is just feeding into the drama that she lives on.
All in all, your main goals are focused on your career and professional growth. I disagree with you on this one. Definitely start recording those harassing calls if you can and only listen to the voice long enough to verify that its her. The only reason why she is so heated is because they went out before and it makes her insecure. Are you looking for the secrets you have always been searching for when it comes to attracting, picking up, seducing and charming Japanese women? He's a decent guy, though, other than all of that. It sounds rude, but you need to think from all perspectives to get a fair idea of the situation. I know his soul and I trust that he wouldn't be keeping someone on pedestal like my ex tried to keep me.