Me and my lady have 2 young kids, both of us work demanding jobs in healthcare, so absences is not a good thing. But in the meantime, he should be viewing the two of you as partners who collectively need to get X, Y and Z done i. He talks as if nothing happens. I have trouble attracting financially irresponsible men. I have patience but when it wears thin thats not good.
I had to really struggle to get my home, and succeed at work, and I do not want to be in a position where a roof over my head is at risk. Nothing in life worth having is ever easy. If you are that makes way more money than you, you should understand that the value that this person places on you may have nothing to do with how much money you bring to the relationship. I found out that he had money after the fact. In other words, money is a big deal in a relationship.
I am new here really getting bored,…I have been hurt in the past but cautiously trying this…. What are the plans for the weekend? On the flip side — do you think he respects what you do, and the time required for it? In order to be a great lawyer, a great mother and a great wife — you need a great partner, and it seems like you need to have a serious talk with your husband to see if he is meeting that standard. So what's it like to be a working-class kid dating a one-percenter or vice versa? Do i remove him from my social medias entirely? What do you need, what do you want? Take that away from him, and the result is… A man who will accept his fate as the men who equate themselves to anything less than satisfactory — without aspiration. And he didnt seem phased. So, I was the one in a huge amount of debt and using a credit card to make ends meet. He was really upset about this because he has never not had a job before.
What about all that equality we are all on about? Yes he works temp jobs but its just enough to buy his toiletries and a bus pass. Thanks for commenting, 3rd Derivative. When we got married, we were both BigLaw associates. I had one love but sjEd fast realised and I guess my replacement pointed out how little I earnt and now women over thd net dont wang to mnow men like myself. Then if you really get desperate for pussy, you can rent them by the hour.
There is no formula for success. He has been in my country since 2009. We only go out on birthdays and have to be wary of how much we spend. The important thing to remember here is the children. I am currently dating an unemployed man that is recently divorced. I appreciated that he was open to listening, and even though he made a few mistakes, that really made a difference.
We do not see this behavior from women. I put together his resume because I volunteered in the unemployment center. Nothing is stopping you or any other man from having that reality. We went out on a couple of dates at first. I want a guy with a bit more stability in his life. October 9, 2010, 2:08 pm I have to add to my original question. I own my own home, brand new car, credit card, all the stuff I need and want.
I just hate always giving and giving and it not be reciprocated. I consistently wind up with men that start out what looks to be financially secure , only to have them all lose their jobs yes, 4 of them , even though 2 of them were my boss at one time. Somehow, I told myself it was okay, when I knew it was not. We both know we are a wonderful match with a lifetime of happiness ahead of us. So when you say women are whores remember your mum is a woman.
April 17, 2016, 10:49 am I met this amazing man who was very attentive and affectionate to me and we matched up on so many levels. October 5, 2017, 7:57 pm Hi Eric, Here is a somewhat related comment. We are both in this way because he is helping me struggle my way through nursing school. Have a little heart and be honest. Partly because I was stressing out about what we would do if 1 year of unemployment stretched into two, and partly because I resented him for not working harder to find a job. Most women I know value character more than anything.